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1. Call her the next day.2. Always laugh at her jokes.

3. Tell her (truthfully) that you can’t wait to see her again.

4. Offer her a backrub, without asking for one in return.

5. Call her just to say you were thinking about her.

6. Bring her a teddy bear and chicken soup when she’s sick.

7. Write her a poem.

8. Slow dance with her (not only on a dance floor).

9. Bring her flowers for no reason.

10. Send her a (handwritten) letter just to say hello.

11. Always remember your anniversaries and bring her something sweet.12. Kiss her in the middle of a sentence.

13. Take her for a walk at sunset and stay to look up at the stars.

14. Tell her something about you that no one else knows.

15. Remind her that you still think she’s beautiful.

16. Take a bubble bath together.17. Watch a sappy movie with her.

18. Surprise her with a candlelight dinner.

19. Never stop trying to impress her.

20. Tell her you love her.

21. Never forget how much she means to you.

Once upon a time there was a teacher and his student lay down under the big tree near the big grass area. Then suddenly the student asked the teacher,

Student : Teacher, I’m confused how we find our soul mate. Can you please help me?
Teacher : “Silent for few second, than he answer” Well, it’s pretty hard and easy question..
Student : “THINK HARD” Ha???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass there, why don’t you walk there but please never walk backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then… wait for me… “Walk straight ahead to the grass field”

A few minutes later…
Student : I’m back..

Teacher : Em, well I don’t see any beautiful grass on your hand.
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass, but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn’t pick it up. But I didn’t realize that I’m in the end of the field, and I hadn’t pick any. Cause you told me not to go back, so I didn’t go back.
Teacher : That’s what happened in real life.

What is the message of this story?

* Grass –> is people around you
* Beautiful Grass –> is people that attract you
* Grass Field –> is time

In looking for your soul mate, please don’t always compare and hope that there will be a better one. By doing that, you’ll waste your lifetime, cause remember “Time Never Goes Back”…. So try to accept what he/she is.

Once upon a time there was a teacher and his student lay down under the big tree near the big grass area. Then suddenly the student asked the teacher,

Student : Teacher, I’m confused how we find our soul mate. Can you please help me?
Teacher : “Silent for few second, than he answer” Well, it’s pretty hard and easy question..
Student : “THINK HARD” Ha???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass there, why don’t you walk there but please never walk backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then… wait for me… “Walk straight ahead to the grass field”

A few minutes later…
Student : I’m back..

Teacher : Em, well I don’t see any beautiful grass on your hand.
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass, but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn’t pick it up. But I didn’t realize that I’m in the end of the field, and I hadn’t pick any. Cause you told me not to go back, so I didn’t go back.
Teacher : That’s what happened in real life.

What is the message of this story?

* Grass –> is people around you
* Beautiful Grass –> is people that attract you
* Grass Field –> is time

In looking for your soul mate, please don’t always compare and hope that there will be a better one. By doing that, you’ll waste your lifetime, cause remember “Time Never Goes Back”…. So try to accept what he/she is.

There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he didn’t know which one he loved more. Someone taught him.

Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly :

“When you are happy, which gal would you want to share your happiness with?” The one you think of is someone you love.

Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly :

“When you are sad, which gal you want to share your burden with?” The one you think of is also someone you love.

If you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that’s the most perfect. But if you don’t think of the same gal, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.

In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that u meet that u can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover.

If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone.

In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you.

But it shouldn’t stop there. If that person only thinks of you when she is happy, but looks for someone else when she is sad, this lover is too unstable, she doesn’t treat you as someone she can spend the rest of her life with.

Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her happiness. But, if she is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her side & ease her pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very important position in her heart.

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?

Years ago I asked God to send me a wife, for the Bible says “you have not because you ask not“. I told the Lord not just that I wanted a wife but even explained to him the kind of wife I was looking for.

I told him I wanted someone who is kind, tender, gentle, compassionate, loving, sincere, peaceful, generous, affectionate, understanding, passionate, warm, intelligent, humorous, sensual, and trustful. I even mentioned things I wanted her to be physically. And as time passed, I would add more things to this list of my heart desire for a wife.

Then one night in prayer God spoke to my heart and said… “Son I can not give you what you’ve asked me for.“ I said, “Why not Lord?“ He replied, “For I am a just God and a God of righteousness and all I do is just and right.“ I said, “Lord, I don’t understand why I cannot have what I have asked you for.“

He replied, “Then I will explain. It would not be just and right for me to grant to you your wish for I cannot give unto you something that you are not yourself. It would not be fair for me to grant unto you a person that is loving if you can sometimes be hateful, or someone that is kind if you can also be mean, someone that is a forgiver and yet you can still carry a grudge, someone that is sensitive and you are yet so insensitive… etc.

He said unto me, “Instead of wasting time trying to find someone or hoping that I will give you someone with all these qualities you seek, you should rather allow me to take this time to allow you to become all it is that you are looking for. For I cannot give to you that which you are not.“

“And if you allow me to work up on your spirit and to shape and mold your heart as I choose then when you see the one I have for you, you will be able to say like Adam said… “She is bone of my bone and she is flesh of my flesh“ for you will see yourself in her for you both will be one flesh.“

Keep this in mind.
This is for all:
the recently married;
the ones who have been married;
the soon to get married;
and the ones that are still looking.

God made woman from man’s rib –
not from his head to top him,
nor from his feet to be walked upon;
but from his side to be his partner in life,
from under his arm to be protected by him,
and from near his heart to be loved by him.

Whether or not you believe in God, much of the above still applies.

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don’t choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.

Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying.

You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.

WELL here’s a few reasons why guys like girls

1. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they sleep
4. the ease in which they fit into our arms
5. the way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
6. How cute they are when they eat
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it all worth while
8. because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side
9. the way they look good no matter what they wear
10. the way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she’s the most beautiful thing on this earth
11. How cute they are when they argue
12. the way her hand always finds yours
13. the way they smile
14. the way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a big fight
15. the way she says “lets not fight anymore” even though you know that an hour later….
16. the way they kiss when you do something nice for them
17. The way they kiss you when you say “I love you’
18. actually… just the way they kiss you…
19. the way they fall into your arms when they cry
20. then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
22. then the way apologize when it does hurt ..(even though we don’t admit it!)
23. the way they say “I miss you”
24. the way you miss them
25. the way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn’t hurt her anymore…..

Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them… it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart. We love them for a million reasons, No paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart. A feeling. Only felt.

The beginning of love, is to let those we love be perfectly themselves and not twist them with our own image — otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them? The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of every-thing…they just make the most out of everything that comes their way.

The best kind of friend is the one you can sit on a porch with, never saying a word and then walk away, feeling like that was the best conversation you’ve had.

Don’t go for looks — it can deceive.

Don’t go for money — even wealth fades away.

Go for someone who makes you smile, because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. For only they can appreciate the importance of the people who have touched their lives.

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romance… and you find out you still care for that person. Love comes to those who still hope even though they’ve been disappointed, those who still believe, even though they have been betrayed and those who still love even though they’ve been hurt before. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people, before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person, we should know how to be grateful for that gift. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But, what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past … you can’t go on in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love you back! Don’t expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in Their hearts. But, if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours. There are things that you would love to hear, but you never hear it from the person you want to. Don’t be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with their heart.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you are smiling and everyone around you is crying.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens. But often we look so long at the closed door, that we don’t see the one which has just been opened for us.

Always put yourself in the other’s shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too. A sad thing about life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you … only to find out in the end, that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone … an hour to like someone…a day to love someone…but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Love starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear.

1. Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing? and your voice caught within your chest?
it isn’t love, it’s like.

2. You can’t keep your hand off them, am I right?
it isn’t love, it’s lust

3. Are you proud and eager to show them off?
it isn’t love, it’s luck

4. Do you want them because you know they’re there?
it isn’t love, it’s loneliness

5. Are you there because it’s what everyone wants?
it isn’t love, its loyalty

6. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don’t want to hurt them?
it isn’t love, its pity

7. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
it isn’t love, it’s lack of confidence

8. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
it isn’t love, it’s infatuation

9. Do you tell them that everyday they are the one you think of?
it isn’t love, it’s a lie

10. Are you willing to give up all your favorite things for their sake?
it isn’t love, it’s charity

11. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
it isn’t love, it’s friendship

12. Do you accept their faults because it’s part of who they are?
then it’s love

13. Do you cry for their pain, even when they’re strong?
then it’s love

14. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply, it hurts?
then it’s love

15. Do you stay because a blinding incomprehensible mix of pain, and elations pulls you close and hold you?
then it’s love

16. Are you attracted to others but stay with them faithfully with no regrets?
then it’s love

17. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
then it’s love

18. And always remember - love isn’t one sided!! - Both must love for LOVE to exist!

4 person in your life how many have u found?

1st-urself,
2nd-1 u love most,
3rd-1 who love u most,
4th-1 you spend the rest of your life with.

firstly u’ll meet the 1 u love most, and learn how love feels.
Because u know how love feels, so u can find the person who loves u most.
When u’ve experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, u’ll then know what
it is u need most. Then u will find the person who is most suitable for u, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly,in real life,these 3 people are usually not the same person.
The one u love most doesn’t love you. The one,who love u most,is never the one u love most. And the one u spend your life with,is never the one u love most or the one who love u most.

He/she is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time.

Which person are u in other people’s life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves u, he/she really loves u.
But when he/she doesn’t love u anymore, he/she really doesn’t love u anymore.
When he/she loves u, he/she can’t pretend that he/she doesn’t.
same goes, when he/she loves u no more, there’s no way he/she can pretend he/she loves u. When a person doesn’t love u and wants to leave u. u must ask yourself if u still love
him/her, If u also don’t love him/her anymore, do not keep him/her just to save your pride. If you still love him/her, you should wish him/her happiness, and hope that he/she will be with the one he/she loves most, not stop him/her from it. If you stop him/her from finding true happiness with the one he/she loves, it shows u already don’t love him/her, And if you don’t love him/her, what rights do you have to blame him/her for a change of heart?

Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you can’t just take it down and put it in your basin, But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him/her become a permanent memory in you life. If you really love a person, you must love him/her for what he/she is. Love him/her for his/her good points, and the bad, You can’t wish for him/her to become like what you like him/her to be just because you love him/her. If he/she can’t change to become what you like him/her to be, you don’t love him/her anymore. When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him/her, You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you.

Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test, If the relationship isn’t strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate.

When two people are in love, They love to ask each other to swear, to make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise? Because they don’t trust each other,
they don’t trust their lover. These swear and promises are useless; Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for u will never change! We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean will never dry, Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then? Be careful when making promises; don’t make promises that you cannot keep. Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually. Rmember? Swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!!?
In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another;
The 1 saying, doesn’t believe; the 1 listening, also doesn’t believe

Well here are a few reasons that girls like guys

1. The way they always wear their favorite cologne (which happens to be the one that you bought them for their birthday)
2. The way the run their hands through your hair
3. The way that they look at you and you want to die right then and there
4. The way that they casually put their arms around you
5. The way that they kiss away your tears
6. …and the way that they then get mad at how they can’t make your problem go away
7. The way they show off around their friends, even though you both know that you would love them even if they missed a basket or two
8. How there eyes light up at the result of 3 hours of preparing for your date
9. How they always know just what to say to make you blush
10. How they sometimes think that they know just what to say to make you feel better, even if you think that it is the worst thing that they could say
11. The way they hold you close when you are cold
12. How they look at you when your mad at them and all your anger melts away
13. How they always smile when you are together

14. The way that they always let you win any game that you play together
15. … and then when you point that out to them they pretend to not know what you are talking about
16. The way that they smile at you
17. The way that you feel when they call to apologize after you had a big fight
18. The way that they say I love you
19. The way that they say I love you in front of their friends
20. The way that they touch and hold you so gently, like they are afraid that they will break you
21. The way that they kiss you
22. The way that they open their arms to you when you are crying
23. The way that they never admit that you hurt them
24. The way that they try not to cry when they are afraid that they are losing you
25. The way that they think that they are your big protector, even though you think that you are theirs.
26. The way that they say I miss you, even though they hate to admit it
27. The way that you miss everything about them when they are gone
28. The way that they remember your special moments, or aniversaries when you think that they forgot
29. The way that they apologize when they do forget
30. The way that they comfort you when you have a bad day
31. The way that you can’t wait to get home and tell them all about your day
32. The way that they write you love letters even if they think that it is uncool
33. How they would rather be with you then their friends sometime
34. How you want to hug them even though they are all sweaty

35. Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them… it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without a trace of sound, you know that your own life is inevitabley comsumed within the rhythimic beatings of his heart. We love them for a million reasons, No paper would do it justice. It is a thing a feeling, that is only felt.